Neatness and the Destruction of Black Hair – Rehairducation

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I bear in mind speaking to a buddy after church a few years in the past. At that time, I had been on my texlax journey for two years and was happy with the progress it had made. I had washed my hair on Saturday and meant to place it into field braids after church so I might put on my wig to work come Monday morning. I wore it in a cute (in my view) poofy trying bun and off to church I went.
Throughout our catch up, with a glance of real concern, my buddy stated, “ Your hair is due for a contact up, you need to get it completed quickly as a result of your hair doesn’t look neat”. I excitedly defined to her that my hair was texlaxed and that I had had a contact up simply two weeks prior. I attempted to inform just a few issues about wholesome hair care.
Lets simply say she didn’t get it. So far as she was involved my hair simply wasn’t tidy and she or he reiterated that I wanted one other contact up as a result of the final one clearly didn’t work.

 

She wasn’t the primary or final individual to make such feedback. Nowadays its feedback about my hair not trying shiny sufficient or your hair is good however don’t you wish to get it completed aka styled. Thankfully for me I’ve by no means been one to be simply influenced by the views of others about my look so such feedback have by no means a had any detrimental impact on my psyche.
I had seen the wholesome hair care mild at that time. I had re-learned loads about what black hair is meant to be aesthetically each in its pure and relaxed states. And I used to be advantageous with it.

 

The priority I’ve and why I made a decision to put in writing this publish is as a result of the hair of so many black ladies is being destroyed by the idea of neatness. While we’ve this time, I wish to write posts which I hope will problem us to realize a greater perceive the character of our hair and to see the wonder in it in whichever state we select to put on or not it’s it pure, texlaxed, relaxed or loc’ed.
Failure to take action has lead numerous ladies to maintain everlasting hair loss and plenty of extra are on that path.

 

Afro hair is textured.
Even relaxed hair retains some extent of texture.
Once we get a recent relaxer, our hair may look very glossy for some time however after just a few washes, the feel retained is often obvious. That is why  relaxed hair usually doesn’t mix properly with Caucasian and Asian hair extensions and using closures, frontals or flat irons on the relaxed hair is required to cover the telling distinction in texture. Relaxed hair continues to be black hair. It won’t look transfer or behave like different hair varieties.  And remenber even absolutely relaxed hair shouldn’t be relaxed past 80% as a result of past this level an excessive amount of injury (aka protein loss) would have occured and the hair would have misplaced its elasticity.  This is only one instance in why the idea of wholesome relaxed hair is feasible, ie wholesome by relaxed hair requirements, however thats a battle for an additional day.
This may increasingly not apply to over processed relaxed hair however even hair that’s over-processed may have some lovely new progress spring up inside just a few weeks.

Our hair is textured and the extra texture we get rid of, the extra injury is triggered to our hair.
The feel of our hair which is one in all its defining traits, even in its relaxed state, is sadly perceived by many inside our personal communities as untidy, tough and in want of “fixing”. So we pull, stretch, gel, smoothen and trace of texture away and put the well being of our hair in danger each time we do that. Please don’t confuse this with merely making textured hair look tidy or day after day grooming.
Moisturizing, sealing and utilizing a really tender brush will make our hair look neat however by no means give the extent of sleekness I’m referring to.

The issue is that this, what’s neat for afro textured hair (pure or relaxed) shouldn’t and can’t be what’s neat by Caucasian or Asian hair aesthetics. Our hair should not be judged by these requirements.
Put it this fashion, our hair is completely different and our neatness is completely different too. Our presentable shouldn’t be their presentable

Understanding this may increasingly simply assist just a few girls steer clear of the surplus or every day use of edge management merchandise mixed with a really agency brush.

It could assist a woman with lower than one inch of latest progress put the relaxer down for just a few extra weeks. (this may increasingly not apply to pixie cuts however that could be a story for an additional day).

It could assist just a few ladies steer clear of having their in loopy tight buns and ponytails with a lot stress and gel that their afro hair which is huge and poofy in its true state turns into fully flattened.
There’s nothing incorrect with such types when completed sometimes and with plenty of warning.

Performed recurrently and incorrectly, the above acts usually results in traction alopecia and different kinds of hair loss which many women don’t absolutely bounce again from relying on its severity and the extent of harm sustained.

Earlier than we attempt to “neaten” our hair, allow us to simply pause to ask ourselves; is my hair truly tough/untidy or is simply black hair being its textured self? Are we assessing the neatness by the right requirements? Or we nonetheless judging our magnificence by means of the incorrect lens.

I hope this publish helps somebody studying take a look at the hair and grade its neatness in a brand new mild

One other publish will likely be up in just a few days so see you quickly.

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